It's been so long since I needed someone who really knew what they were doing in this matter and I urgently need help. I have a group of friends, the famous foursome, formed by me, friend 1, friend 2 and friend 3. I've always been the most outgoing of our group (which used to be a trio), but I don't know what's been happening these past few months, it's as if friend 3 is simply better at everything, but at the same time he's disgusting. Today I was looking for friend 2 with friend 1 and we found him with friend 3 and some other boys simply laughing while watching pornographic pictures, like futanari, bestiality and even pedophilia. I found it disgusting and so did friend 1, but for some reason friend 2 wanted to stay and friend 3 insisted that he stay. We had to pull him out of there. Friend 3 is even more outgoing than me, and this morning I spent the whole morning being ignored by all 3 of them, I watched from afar as they were having fun without me and I couldn't help but cry while hugging the only comfort available: my sister. That scene made me feel so bad, I bet a lot of people must know what it's like. I've tried to have an honest talk with them, but friend 3 is always acting ignorant towards me as if this is all a joke, maybe because we are exes and he still has feelings of anger towards me, but I hope he understands that what ended in October of last year STAYS IN OCTOBER OF LAST YEAR! This situation is burning me up inside and I don't feel like there's much I can do, I just want peace and my friends, nothing more.
Yatsufusa
I am sorry to say this, but if you "urgently need help", you should not address random strangers on the internet. Ask somebody who knows you (and perhaps your situation) from firsthand experience.
Some situations are "salvageable" - others aren't. People on the internet love to give snobby advice in this regard, such as "Just stop seeing them.", as if people had an infinite supply of 'perfect friends' living nearby. ( Related: https://img.ngfiles.com/image-uploads/000/001/370/iu_1370450_1414829.jpg )
To exaggerate: I had "evil" acquaintances in the past. Unlike 'friends' I won't defend them if they do stupid shit and there are things I wouldn't do for them. But that doesn't mean we cannot hang out or work together. Not everyone you know has to be (or stay) your best friend... But as I said: I don't know you. Without looking deeper into you, to me, you present as an entity of undetermined age ("maybe too young to be on NG"), who identifies as male, has 3 "friends of varying agree-ability", and a sister you seemingly get along with. That is not enough for somebody to determine what is the right moral choice for you to make.
To determine what is the case here is "pretty hard" for an untrained outsider, to say the least. Our community does not exactly consist of professionals trained to tactfully help in situations like these. Most of us come here to appreciate art, play games, have a friendly chat, or look at drawings of naked people. Or 'animated horse dongs' - which is also something that can be found on NG. If you're a minor, don't look those up.